My dad passed away

kashrel · Regular Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 25

Hi All

Just want to let you know that my dad passed away tonight less than 5 months since diagnosis. It is hard to believe he has gone and after all these months of visiting him in hospitals and hospices I am going to feel a bit purposeless. I am so devastated by what this brain tumour did to him.

My love and strength to all of you out there who are dealing with this terrible illness

Karen
Melbourne
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jenugl · Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 6:43 am Post subject: Re: My dad passed away

Karen I don't know what to say except that I am so sorry that your wonderful Dad has passed away and as you say in such a short time. Thankyou for letting us know. I can only send you and your family my love and thoughts and a comforting hug. It is such a terrible disease and your Dad and your family didn't deserve this (nobody does). Please take care and stay in touch. Love to all. Jen

brainman · Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 11:29 am Post subject: Re: My dad passed away

Karen, I don't know what to say but that I am truly sorry about your father's death. I was my father's primary care provider for 2 years until his death in Sept 2006. I too spent much of those 2 years going between nursing facilities, hospitals, and doctors' offices'. When he died, I experienced normal grief. However, I also experienced what you describe as "a bit purposeless". I called it "an identity crisis." I am by nature a care giver. For the first time in many years, I found myself alone with no one to care for. In time, I turned to this forum as my outlet. Right now, you are only beginning to grieve. However, in time, you too will find new purpose and meaning for your life.

God be with you and with your family.
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michelesmith · Experienced user Joined: 28 Oct 2005 Posts: 72

Karen,
I am so sorry that your dad has passed. I too felt some of that identity crisis. We work our lives around what we can do for our loved ones and do it with such intensity that once they pass I think we all go through a period of not knowing exactly what we are supposed to be doing. My heart goes out to you at this time. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Michele
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ksplat · Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 7:04 am Post subject: Your Dad's passing

Dear Karen, I have been thinking of u alot since your last post. So sorry I am now writing to you to offer my condolences on your Dad's passing.
[size=18]I hate this cancer![/size]
I'm sure your Dad's illness & passing will be a huge cross to bear, for you all, for some time to come. I will be thinking of you & praying for you. Be patient with yourself now, & take the time to mourn & then take time to rejoice; for all the beauty, warmth & loveliness you shared with your Dear Dad.
This is a verse we used after my Dad passed away last year, I hope it brings you some comfort.
“His Love—It Came Walking Softly In Silver Sandals And Took Him Gently Away.”
Blessings, Aussie Angie.
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