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SalTCBug New User
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 3 Location: So Cal desert
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 11:58 pm Post subject: to treat or not to treat Help on this question please.... |
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Hi:
I'm new to the site and new to this cancer. I've got some questions some may find strange but I really would like some answers if anyone has them.
A little background first. I am 68 years old, post-menopause, have had 2 fibroadenomas removed many years ago, had a stereotactic biopsy 2 years ago on the other breast & have a yearly Mammogram. Well, mostly yearly, I went for my yearly Mammogram in November (was due in June) and a lump that I was sure was left over from a bout of Mastitis in my left breast was found to be malignant. The lump had come up to "feeling" size in late August or early September. Ultrasound guided biopsy proved it to be an Infiltrating Duct Carcinoma, grade 3. This good news was delivered 11/27/2006. On 1/3/2007 I had a lumpectomy & removal of 4 lymph nodes. Lymph nodes were clear of cancer and the margins of surgery were clear.
Tumor was 3.1 cm
Grade 3
Stage II (That's a guess since no one has said yet.)
The Hormone R & Ps were:
Estrogen Receptor 100% Strong Positive
Progesterone Receptor 5% Negative
HER-2/neu <10% Negative
Ki-67 60% High
p53 5% Negative
E-Cadherin 100%
The Medical Oncologist wants to do 4 IV treatments plus a year or more of a pill of some sort and then the Radiologist wants 5 days/5weeks.
Now for the questions.
Have any of you opted for doing neither chemo or radiation?
What are your thoughts on doing neither one of them?
Will certainly appreciate some answers quickly as push is getting to shove as far as time is concerned. Thanks in advance for your input.
SalTCBug
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Vee Smith Moderator
Joined: 12 Feb 2006 Posts: 744 Location: UK
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 1:42 pm Post subject: Re: to treat or not to treat Help on this question please.... |
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Sorry you've had to join us. As strongly oestrogen positive, you are a candidate for hormonal treatments (that will be the pill your onc. was talking about). You don't say what IV treatment is being suggested.
Owing to identification of secondaries, I elected to have no surgery, have had two rounds of chemo, am on tamoxifen, and so far am 4 years post-diagnosis and currently stable. It is difficult to say what is best for another person in these matters. However, you may well want to consider no strong action at this point, if the cancer was fully excised and there were no signs in the nodes.
Best of luck with your decision, whatever. |
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Cindy Senior User
Joined: 01 Dec 2004 Posts: 156
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Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:13 pm Post subject: Re: to treat or not to treat Help on this question please.... |
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I am an advocate for doing all that can be done to sustain life. It truly is all a crap shoot, but if you do nothing, you have to think about the what ifs and the potential consequences. Also, the fact that things could get worse which would have cause for harsher treatments, more surgery, etc. to live. I, for myself, would opt to take care of everything while it is in an early stage. It is such a personal decision. You just have to think it all through and be willing to accept whatever happens, as a result of the decision. I wish you the best.
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SalTCBug New User
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 3 Location: So Cal desert
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Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:54 pm Post subject: To treat or not... |
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Thank you, Ladies, for your opinions and for taking the time to help in this dilemma.
After 2 doctors, an oncology nursing specialist, long talks with my husband (my rock) and a lot of soul searching I decided to go the whole route. I have 1 chemo under my belt, and that's exactly where it went! I was fortunate with this first go round that I had minimal nausea but understand I have more to look forward to with each round. I take pre-chemo IV of Dexamethasone & Dolasetron and the Chemo is AC done in a 21 day cycle. 2 to 3 weeks after I'm through with this I will start the rads.
I think one of the things that had bothered me was my husband is not in the best of health & in the middle of cataract surgery so I'm doing all the driving. Wonderful friends have offered many times to do the driving for us if I can't but I'm not real good at asking for help and my SH is even worse. Guess we have to learn!!
Again thanks for your input and wish me luck as I travel this new road. Seem to be some sneaky pot holes on here!! LOL
SalTCBug  _________________ I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
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Cindy Senior User
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SalTCBug New User
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 3 Location: So Cal desert
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 12:49 am Post subject: To treat or not... |
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Thanks so much for your message, Cindy.
I have done my chemo, last one was the 18th of April. My "8" weeks of chemo became 12 when the Oncologist changed his mind re what I was taking. Then he didn't renew his contract with the medical group so had to have a new Oncologist half way through. And THAT was the total extent of my chemo problems. Oh sure, my hair came out but I was ready for it and was not quite a shock other than how absolutely terrible I look with no hair! Right now sorta like an unsinged chicken!!
But no nausea or other problems and my last chemo was the 18th of April. May 7 began my 33 treatments of radiation and then pills (Aromasin) for 5 years. So I feel I'm about through with the rough stuff & though with our gas prices here ($3.40 to $3.63 for regular) I do not look forward to the 72 miles a day for the radiation, I know I can do that standing on my head!
So I have been truly fortunate in my treatment and resiliance. I wish everyone could be the same.
My husband asked me how I would know if the cancer comes back. My only answer was mammograms and breast exams and if it metastisied I had no idea. Have you a clue how you know if it shows up elsewhere?
Guess that's a good question for Mondays session with the Radiology Oncologist. He's a sweetie and takes time to answer any and all questions!
Thanks again,
SalTCBug  _________________ I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
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Muttsmom Senior User

Joined: 30 Sep 2004 Posts: 631 Location: Northern AL
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2007 11:32 pm Post subject: Re: to treat or not to treat Help on this question please.... |
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I completely agree with Cindy and I'm glad you decided to take the treatment available. My feelings are hit it with your best shot in the beginning and give yourself every chance to kick the cancer to the curb.
My profile shows my dx, age etc. and I celebrated 5 years NED a few months ago
Best wishes!!! _________________ Nancy
2/14/02 ILC 43 - 5.5 cm 9+/16 nodes
Stage IIIA er/pr+ Her2-
2/02 MRM
FECx6 radsx33
Tamoxifen - Arimidex (chemo induced menopause)
4/03 SM w/bilat. recon.
9/03 expanders removed
5/04 repair reconst. disaster
10/04 Actonel for bone/joint pain from Arimidex
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