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momaton
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 Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 6:49 pm Post subject: husband has gbm |
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I don't even know where to start. Especially after reading many of the posts on this forum...where there are so many brave and courageous people.
This is our 2nd time around with cancer. My husband, who is 43, had stage 3b colon cancer in 2006. he had surgery and chemo... all went well....
Until Dec.2007...he started having headaches and some dizziness every morning. Treated by 3 doctors for a sinus infection.
Finally on Feb. 21 he had a cat scan of his head because the docs finally listened to us about his symptoms of : slow thinking, slow speech and grasping for words. Immediatly after the scan he was admitted to the hospital with a very large brain mass.
Soooooooo he now has 20% of the cancer left in his brain...too close to his speech center to fully resect. He has mid-line shift and the tumor partially compressed his left lateral ventrical (still have to research that)
Rob started radiation...on the 17th of march..my birthday  ...
we dont quite know about the temodor yet...I had to spend 3 1/2 hours on the phone yesterday fighting with his ins. co. inorder to have them go ahead and pay for it...so we didn't have to come up with $8000 out of pocket. I B***** long enough to get it done. yay
I have NO illusions about this insidious cancer. I am however numb to the core of my being. We have only been married fro 7 years and my Rob is my hero and best friend and the love of my life. If I could I would take this from him in a heartbeat.
Right after surgery he was doing much better, but already i see deficits cropping up.
I am scared and depressed and angry. Lucily i have a ton of support from his family and mine...and friends that are dedicated to helping me care for him....
but I am so glad i have found you all...I hope I can help you all as much as you have already helped me.
love and peace, Eve |
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laycswms
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| Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:16 pm Post subject: Re: husband has gbm |
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Eve,
I am so so sorry to hear about your husband. The fact that you have already been through a similar process makes you such a strong woman. Kudos to you for fighting the insurance company! YOU GO GIRL!  Be an advocate for your husband! My dad's last session of chemo & radiation was yesterday, and he says he can tell that his words come out a bit stuttered and that he is shuffling as he walks. I however, haven't noticed these. The only advice I can give is that you do your best to distract him from thinking about the mass in his brain (fairly impossible, I know), but if you can get even 20 minutes of true carelessness a day, its been a good day!
I'll be keeping you in my thoughts!
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momaton
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 1:32 pm Post subject: Re: husband has gbm |
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Day 4 of radiation...temoder arrives tomorrow!
So did anyone start out with whole brain rads and then have it trimmed down to a "boost"? This was a surprise to us...the whole brain thing. I know his brain was infiltrated with the fingers of the cancer....i've looked at all his scans and you can see it.
I keep trying to find a case similar to Rob's, so I can get an idea as to where we stand with how much time he has left. Seems his GBM is fairly advanced as he had three connected areas that looked like mickey mouse and one very deep 2cm area that could not be resected. The tumor itself was 7cm.
This treatment is the only one Rob will undertake...the colon cancer chemo last year was awful and I know he will not go through anymore. He also has nodules in his lungs that are probably mets from the colon cancer....but the docs aren't even disscussing that.
Also this morning, while taking a shower, he had an uncontrolable shaking in his right arm, tumor is on the left...could that have been a seizure?
by the way laycswms....thanks for replying...best wishes to you and your dad. Yes I am strong....my 2 boys are in the military ...my youngest, a Marine just left for Iraq not to long ago....my other son is a couple of hours from me and is a rock.
It is my family and friends that are keeping me sane right now.
prayers and love to all, Eve |
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ksplat
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:24 pm Post subject: Re: husband has gbm |
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Dear Eve
I am so sorry to hear about Rob's diagnosis & wanted to let you know my prayers & thoughts are with you.
Such a young man to have been dealt a 2nd blow by cancer. Life is so unfair & I'm sure you can't quite believe it yourself? It's times like these when you feel like locking yourself away & leaving all your troubles behind. Unfortunately, you must do the opposite & face all of your fears & worries....you have the power, strength & courage to do this, with the support from yr family & friends.
As has been stated you have been down a similar path just recently (you must be reeling with this 2nd cancer diagnosis) & this serious illness at such a young age & with your beloved Husband is a bitter pill to swallow!! I won't even talk about outcomes from this cancer, but I know everyone's story is totally different for each individual. As you will discover there are several different treatments available for brain tumours & Rob's medical team will be making these decisions.
I can't imagine the obstacles you Americans have to face in regards to health insurance? We are so blessed here in Aust with our Federal Health System. All power to you Eve in overcoming your insurance obstacles!!
I agree with you on the shaking that Rob had in his R arm, this most definitely would have been a seizure (my Bro has experienced very similar symptoms but on his L side from R frontal lobe tumour) & you should address this with Rob's Dr. If Rob isn't already taking an anti-seizure med then this should be followed up.
GBM's are nasty tumours that can spread out & cross to other parts of the brain. I have read about WBR (whole brain radiation) but can't actually recall whether it was here or on another website? I do hope someone on this forum can answer this question for you?
Welcome to our forum, this site has been a great resource of comfort, support, information & love since finding out about my Bro - Mark's - GBMIV just over 1 yr ago. I'm certain your experiences & strengths will be a valuable asset to this forum. Please keep in touch.
Cheers, Aussie Angie.
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brainman
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:01 am Post subject: Re: husband has gbm |
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Oh Eve  my heart goes out to you and your husband. Do you realize how rare it is for one person to have two major primary cancers? Not unheard of but very rare. I am so sorry that your husband has to be one of those who have to face cancer twice.
If you read my story (links in my signature block), you will see that I am not a stranger to brain cancer. I had a glioma grade II in 1992 that recurred in 2005 as a grade III. My mother died in 1998 two months after being diagnosed with a GBMIV.
Is your husband taking anything for seizures? Seizures (mild) where the first sign I had of my glioma.
Eve, you and Rob and in my thoughts and prayers.
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1992 Astrocytoma grade 2, left motor strip
2005 Recurrence this time said to be an Oligodendoglioma grade 3, same location.
My Story Part 1: http://cancerforums.net/viewtopic.php?p=7350
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momaton
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 7:10 am Post subject: Re: husband has gbm |
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Hi Angie and Jim,
Yes Rob is taking Keppra...twice a day. He thinks he took a double dose of tylenol...he doesn't remember....so i told him to stay away from the pills....I'll give them to him.
Today he feels a lot better.
His Temodor(sp?) arrives today...so we will get started on that. fun stuff!
We are fortunate to be in central florida where we have really great doctors and state of the art treatments. But as i said Rob won't be operated on again or do anymore chemo. He doesnt want to be a test subject and feel ill all the time...he just wants some time to enjoy his life even if it is only for a few months. Or (sigh) weeks.
Anyhow, you all have a great day.
hugs, Eve
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