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If you knew who "gave" you Cancer, would you tell them?
Yes- but nicely, explain?
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 5:29 pm    Post subject: If You knew Reply with quote
If you knew the person who gave you a STD- which in turn gave you Cancer.
If you knew 100% .
Would you tell them? Would you blame them? would you expain to them, how, why when?
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 8:53 pm    Post subject: Re: If You knew Reply with quote
Yes... but how nice I would be very much depends on the details of the situation, my current situation, the person's situation...
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: Re: If You knew Reply with quote
I agree. It would depend on the situation.
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:33 pm    Post subject: Re: If You knew Reply with quote
I didn't want to go into it too much- beacuse it's not a blaming game- BUT
- it is... Wink doesn't make sense- i know.


short and very aprivated:

I was silly just 18- wanted to do everything see everything, travel, party.
Went to his house, with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. Had dinner, Some drinks, bam, before you know it, dizzy, couldn't move, couldn't speak...

Then Morning, woke up. tried to get out of bedroom, but door was locked and had no handle... I freaked and screemed for him to open door- he did. I Left..... and tried to forget.

He rang and wanted to see me, stalked for a bit. Till I set my older brother onto him... That was the short version. Confused
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:00 pm    Post subject: Re: If You knew Reply with quote
I don't know Confused Honestly, I'd probably want to tell him, but I don't know if I could actually go through with it. I'm a total non-confrontation person, so stuff like that is really hard for me.

Lots of hugs & prayers sent your way!
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:09 pm    Post subject: Re: If You knew Reply with quote
Thanks, it's been 10-11 years, a long time. Thought it might give me a little closure... maybe.

More want to say it to help others and make him awear, if not already.
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