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cinnabon64
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:09 am    Post subject: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
I am crying as I write this. My mom died during the night. She got up at about 2 am and was coughing, and she couldn't breathe. Dad couldn't find her puffers and then she just fell of the chair. Dad tried to recesitate her and called 911 but by that time she was gone.

This is such a tragedy! this must be a bad dream we can't wake up from! My poor father had to witness all this. He is totally beside himself with grief Now we have to make funeral arrangements and we still don't even know what type of cancer it was, or if it spread or what.

Please pray for us as we try and work these details out through the fog of grief we are now in.

Bonnie
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Cinnabon

My Mom diagnosed with Lung Cancer
tumor surrounding Superior Vena Cava
on July 18/08
died July 30/08

testing never completed, many questions unanswered
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brainman
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Location: Tennessee
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:13 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Oh Bonnie, I am so sorry that I can hardly hold back my tears for you. What you father experienced... Crying or Very sad.

You and your family are most definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
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1992 Astrocytoma grade 2, left motor strip
2005 Recurrence this time said to be an Oligodendoglioma grade 3, same location.
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LizNDale
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Location: River Falls, WI
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:24 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Oh Bonnie, I am so so sorry! This is so horrible, I can't imagine the shock you are in.

I'm praying for you, for your mom and dad, for your family, God Bless -

Liz
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My Mother - Stage IV NSCLC - Adenocarcinoma
Mets to Adrenal Glands and Brain
Diagnosed Thursday June 12th 2008
Died Sunday September 7th 2008

Her Story:
http://cancerforums.net/about9639.html
Her Statement of Faith Memorial:
http://cancerforums.net/viewtopic.php?t=10528
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B&H1997
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:28 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Dearest Bonnie,

I am so very sorry at to hear of the passing of your Mom.

Please know you and your Dad are both in my prayers.

God Bless you both,
Bernice
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Husband was diagnosed 6-5-08 with Stage IIIA Lung Cancer- NSCLC- Squamous Cell Carcinoma
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koikkeril
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:41 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Bonnie,
I have just read your post. Crying or Very sad
I cant hold back my tears..I am so, so sorry...reading this is just too much..
I am going on my knees, you don't deserve this. I will pray God will smother you and your father with Love... I'm so sorry..Koik
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Husband diagnosed with stage 1V NSCLC Febuary 2007.....Lost his battle August 27th 2008 but lives on in my heart.
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cinnabon64
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Location: Manitoba Canada
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:57 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
thanks you so much everyone. You don't even know me but you care so much. This is the hardest journey I've ever been on. I will only make with God as my strength.

Thanks again.
Bonnie
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Cinnabon

My Mom diagnosed with Lung Cancer
tumor surrounding Superior Vena Cava
on July 18/08
died July 30/08

testing never completed, many questions unanswered
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koikkeril
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Joined: 29 Jul 2007
Posts: 334
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:15 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
[quote="cinnabon64"]thanks you so much everyone. You don't even know me but you care so much. This is the hardest journey I've ever been on. I will only make with God as my strength.

Thanks again.
Bonnie[/quote]

We do know you, because we can feel you and be with you.
Spiritually we are there for you and that is stronger than physically..that's why God will help you through this and our tears will be wiped by his love.
Don't be afraid, I have just prayed for you as others are right now..God Bless you and your dad....Koik
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rdeegee
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Joined: 23 Jul 2008
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:58 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
I'm so sorry. I haven't been on the forum very long but have been keeping up with the people here. I hope you find great solace in wonderful memories of your Mom.
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Tera
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Joined: 31 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 1:05 pm    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Bonnie, I am SO sorry....I know that is tramatizing to your family and especially your dad. I will pray that God uplifts you and your family and gives you strength and peace to deal with it.

I don't know if this helps or not, but based on the tumor location, and it being so instantaneous, it is possible she had a heart attack. If so, she probably did not suffer any pain.

Hugs to you.....((((((Bonnie and Dad)))))))
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onecoyote
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 4:22 pm    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Oh Bonnie,
I am so sorry for your mom's passing. It seemed like you were just beginning the journey all of us were in the process of. Please accept my deepest sympathy and I will pray you and your dad get through this.
Peace,
Onecoyote
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Trudy
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Joined: 24 May 2008
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Location: Hershey PA
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:21 pm    Post subject: SO sorry Reply with quote
Dear Bonnie,

I just read of your Mother's passing and I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and I pray that each day will bring you and your Father more comfort, peace and understanding.

my deepest sympathy to you and your Father.

Trudy
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84 yr old Mother has NSCLC Stage 4 diagnosed April 2008
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pbj11
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 9:10 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Oh Bonnie!

I am so very sorry to read of this quick passing for your Mom. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your Dad. May God hold you close during this time of intense grief and shock.

Hugs,
PBJ
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Post describing our battle: http://cancerforums.net/viewtopic.php?t=7026&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0
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maryaz
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Joined: 11 Feb 2008
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Location: Arizona
PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 12:54 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Bonnie, I, too, am so very sorry to read about your Mom. Only time can ease the pain. I will have you and your Dad in my prayers. Just try to get thru one day or hour at a time for now. Such a shock. You have my deepest sympathy.
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Husband is 67 year old Male
NSCLC - Squamous Cell Carcinoma
Chemo and Radiation Treatments together
Allergic reactions to Taxol and Taxotere.
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karibrenmom
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 5:12 am    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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My mom was diagnosed with NSCLC Squamous Carcinoma 10/23/2007. Wedge resection 11/20/2007. Final pathology showed poorly differiniated large cell carcinomawith invasion of visceral pluera, T2NxM0/stage 1B. 12/14/2007. No chemo elected.
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helensgirl
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Location: north carolina
PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 12:18 pm    Post subject: Re: SHES GONE! Reply with quote
Bonnie,
My heart aches for you and your father...It's a tremendous shock, and you'll go through so much...but keep your faith. I am sending heartfelt warm fuzzies and positive thoughts your way. Your story is very near and dear to my heart b/c it's very simlar to my story with my beloved mom...Take care, and may your pain ease as time goes by. Kim
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Helen, my wonderful mom, diagnosed May, 07
fought-stage 4 NSCLC, (adenocarcinoma)
earned her place in Heaven, Dec. 14th, 07
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