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Is she faking ovarian cancer? What is this ?

 
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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 4:58 pm    Post subject: Is she faking ovarian cancer? Reply with quote
All,

I am a two time cancer survivor. The type of cancer I have (Metastatic Renal Cell Cancer) will almost certainly kill me someday. I wanted anyone reading this to know that so they do not think I am asking the following question lightly.

About 6 months ago, a former girlfriend of mine stood me up. I confronted her about it many weeks later and she told me she had been diagnsoed with Ovarian Cancer the day before standing me up and was too upset to call me. Here is where the situation becomes strange.

She kept it very hush hush and only me and her best friend know (understandable). Four times over the next 4 months her surgery was mysteriously cancelled for different reasons (she was running a fever, the doc cancelled on her, her white blood cell count was off, etc...) I promised her i would stop asking about it fi she promised me she would tell me when it was rescheduled. Over the last 2 months, she has not mentioned it at all. I have emailed her twice in the last week asking when it was rescueduled for...and while she has answered the other questions in my emails... she ignored the cancer questions. It has now been 6 months since she told me and I cannot beleive there is any doctor in America who would postpone a cancer surgery that long.

I am left with the sickening feeling that she invented the whole story to cover for standing me up but I find it hard to beleive that anyone could be so twisted as to fake getting cancer... particulary to someone who has cancer and will almost certainly die of it someday.

I want to confront her, but for obvious reasons I want to be absolutely certain I am right before I do. Ladies... as I know many of you are going through this terrible disease, based on your expereinces, is there ANY conciveable scenario under which a doctor would keep postponing an Ovarian Cancer surgery 6 full months?

Thank you in advance for answering... and I will you all the best with your treatment.

Jack
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