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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 5:28 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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Inica has got a life and left everyone it seems
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brainman Site Admin

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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 5:08 pm Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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9.00 am.
Just saw your post slap toodles and Brainman-
Haven't got a life- just busier doing mother stuff. and fighting for the computer- the hubby has an extra 30kg on me so hard to play musical chairs.
i will post tonight or tomorrow. lol _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 7:13 pm Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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[quote="In"]9.00 am.
Just saw your post slap toodles and Brainman-
Haven't got a life- just busier doing mother stuff. and fighting for the computer- the hubby has an extra 30kg on me so hard to play musical chairs.
i will post tonight or tomorrow. lol[/quote]
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Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 5:38 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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Ok- sorry guys (not that I think many of you are watching ), but been busy- flat out- excuses excuses
Been flat out with work- i have been trying to impress the bosses, as we have been looking for another worker to help me out with days i can't do. I needed to impress them, so i wouldn't lose any days i really need.
Hunter has been put back on all medicine again. He was vomiting that much he had some redness to it- they think was blood. So back on everything, and hopefuly better behaviour too.
I didn't think that he would have 2 year old tantrums on his actually birthday week. (here i was thinking i was lucky)- in that department anyway.
Hoping the "SupperNanny" will help. and a helping toodles.
Going away for our wedding annivesary- should be nice. Mum and Dad having Hunter, so 2 nights of peace, and romantic SLEEP !!!!!!! (hehe nothing happening- i get un-interupted sleep) YAAY!!!! Can't wait.
(might even be more romantic and buy myself some ear plugs - so the freight train wont keep me awake. The place we are staying is right on the Ocean and has a hot tub for my aches and pains......
Off to dream for 5 min about it.
talk soon- night all. _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 6:10 pm Post subject: Re: Your wedding anniversary |
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Dear Inica
I do hope you & your SO enjoy you 2 nights away to celebrate your anniversary!
Peace & joy to the both of you!
Cheers, Angie. _________________ Brother has GBMIV
Diagnosed Feb 07
46 Yrs young!
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:31 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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Ok- been a little while I know, I know.
Alot has been happening the last few days. We had to travel for hunters opperation, so decided to stay the night at a motel- we have stayed at before. Not cheap, but basic- Still $220 a night though. Anyway Hunter's opp time was 6.30 in the morning, so the best thing to do. We arrive On the sunday around lunch time. We walk 10 km's or more around on end of Wollongong to the other. Trying to wear hunter out, so he'll sleep in a strange place. We played in the park, shopped, walked on the beach and even ate and played in the sand. He loved it. We walked out on the pier looking for sharks, lol (major Finding Nemo fan) We than have dinner on the beach and then ready for bed time.
The shower has a deep bottom in it. So i put a face washer in the bottom over drain. The bottom fills with water like a bath- hunter plays and splashes and loves it. All of a sudden i see water. The water is coming UP the drain on the bathroom floor. It starts to flow- flooding Bathroom. I pull the washer out of shower, Turn shower off, throw towel on the drain in bathroom. All the time squeeling and jumping around- Which hunter thought was so funny he laughed so much he fell on bottom in shower. Which made him crack up more with this freaky laugh.
After we Both calm down. We get dressed in Jammies and read a book or 20. Then finally we turn off the lights and all pretend to sleep (husband and myself- while Hunter is tryingt o wake us up). Finally Hunter drifts off.
11.00Pm. Banging- Someone is knocking on the door halfway down the hallway. It wakes Hunter up and he starts to cry. Doesn't know where he is. 12.00-The banging gets worse, then yelling. Sounds like someones girlfriend had locked them out. A few yelled swear words and Hunter starts to really get upset. - Then our motel phone rings. I jump up thinking someone is complaining about the baby crying. But nothing but weird breathing.
12.45- All of a sudden this all mighty bang. It was enough to make matt and myself jump- felt like a car had ran into the motel. Bang, Bang, Bang. Well, mother bear here- Gets up in half of her pj's ready to let fly into whoever this is. Well, the guy halfway down the hall was kicking the door in- he was inside and was screeming he couldn't get out. he had broken the lock and door, and was screeming the door was stuck- with myself and a few other motel people around, we had a look and realsied the chain was on and he must be high on something. He kept screeming at us. He was the one ringing all of us, but not talking- weird!.
Anyway- this motel didn't have a onwer or night manger or anyone here of a night. So we called sercruity and then the owner arrived 20min later- man still screeming. This little lady 5 foot walks up tells this guy off for braking her door, the man yells and says @#$%% get me out of here!. so she lifts her foot and kicks the door in. Asks him if he was ok, and happy to stay in that room. By now I had locked and chained our door, and tried to get some sleep. 1 hour later, banging again, screeming and knocking on our doors etc. So called police. The guy had to be sprayed with capiscuim and cuffed. He was massive. Needless to say no sleep- and than the alarm goes off.
Hunter was the perfect little boy. He woke up happy even though a little freaked out, and ready to go to the beach. We took him to hospital in jammies and lead him in 20min later, we took him into surgery.
I now, understand how my mum would always say- If i could go/do it instead of you- I would. Matt, had to hold hunter while he screemed and looked into my eyes with the gas mask on. I'll never forget the look, His eyes were staring at me- with the look of why, mum?. How could you? look. The he went lifless and looked so still and dead like, his eyes open and dilated. I walked out in tears.
30min later he was out. Asleep and creid on and off. We than drove home as quickly and safely as we could. (though i'm sure i must have drove on the line the whole way home- so tried). We had a very bad night last night of him crying and so sore. Though we got so pain meds into him, and he woke happy, if a little sore.
So all ended good so far. I have to work tomorrow, while matt is home with him. I feel so guilty and sicken not being here. Any Mother would understand- though he'll be fine. No doubt i'll come home to a house of Wrestling, toys everywhere and two little boys in Pj's still (one being the husband, the other Hunter)
So now recovery and hopefuly some inprovment with Hunter and all illnesses. He goes into specialist in 2 weeks for the reflux and bowel- NO WAY- am i going to be there if he has to go under again. Mum and Matt can do it.  _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:53 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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Wow, what an experience Inica. I am glad the Hunter is OK after his surgery and I hope he does not need anymore.
You really had one long night in that motel . Do I want to know where the other half of your pj's where? . or even what half was missing?
Nice to have you back. _________________ Jim
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1992 Astrocytoma grade 2, left motor strip
2005 Recurrence this time said to be an Oligodendoglioma grade 3, same location.
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 6:06 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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It was a hot night- and i had my faithful flannies.
So walking a screeming Hunter made me hot and bothered quick. Plus I was too worried about the noise, to think. (it was bottoms missing- luckly- as the top gave me plenty of cover if a little short- was a very short nightie. ) _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:02 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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So......
All is great with Hunter- or known to us love ones- "huntericane". He is fighting to get outside and go wild. Or at least play up.
Today drove 2 and a bit hours to see my younger brother. Following my Mum and Dad in their new/old/classic sports car (another story there) - To mow his lawn and clean his house (house inspection)- great sister i know- then drive the 2 and bit hours back home (in his defence- he is sick)
The car- It's a classic. mint condition. Convertable, pop up lights, number 8 into Australia. And one i've wanted since i was 8......(dribbling)
ANYWAY- mum and dad were acting like Yuppies- or oldies gone silly. They had the top off, and had fancy hats on. With massive grins. Well nearlly to my little brother's house, we swap- me and mum in sport car and dad, hunter and mAtt in our car......(this is what i get for laughing at dad's bald spot-and joking about his spot getting sunburnt). Within 10-15min drive to the house, i got burnt. Lips, neck and face, along with the car arm....serves me right for teasing them the whole way.
NOTE: Walkie Talkies -amazing if on a road trip and two cars. But of course OLD and wind in their every decreasing hair...couldn't hear. My husband and I were making dirty and naughty words up. Like kiss my butt. Honk if horny etc.....and of course the time they actually hear. LMAO-
so that was my day. sunburt- headache and a earful off my mum for being naughty. - though dad was laughing.
Night all xoxoxox _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 1:13 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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arrrr- to walk in the door and have my son run to me saying "mummmmmy"- music to my ears. Along with a massive peanutbutter smooch and trying to climb up my legs, for a cuddle- well worth the day from hell.
Boss is away on holidays. so of course we relax- a little. do jobs and have morning tea etc. (I never lose my professionalism) So therefore had to talk to the girls about yelling up the hallway- Pass my beautyroom, while doing massage. Leaving there mobile phones on. So i get to hear "baby got back" and the latest of rap music.... all the way across tiled floor to my room, once again a massage.
(the floors and walls eco alot, due to the tiles). Then had to explain to the girls that it's all fun and games when the boss isn't here. BUT they should still get there jobs done and be professional. (sounded like a big bore- ) Then all of a sudden a noise- a phone- "see, i was saying it ecos" and all the way through the salon etc etc etc. Then one of the girls pipes up- "isn't that yours?" - yup- sure was. Needless to say I changed the subject on what had to be done before the end of work. Then all of a sudden, no lunch break. No time to talk, do anything. It's flat out. I miss lunch break, and of course had the clients from hell.
" Can you make me look slimmer? and 30yers younger? Can you make my hair grow? Can you do 5 different treatments and make it snappy, have to be out in 15min. ? "
hehe - thats my day..... Night xoxox _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 4:55 pm Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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A beautiful sunny morning in The Land Down Under.....
Skies cloudless bright blue. Birds chirping in the trees, a slight breeze making the trees dance. And i have to work. - but the great thing only a half day.
watched a beautiful movie last night- Reservations? Catherine Zete Jones. Beautiful if a little sad. (chick flick) though eveyone would like, Lol- even the lover of man in tights (wrestling) husband enjoyed it.
Well, if you look between the lines of what he said "Well, i don't feel like i wasted a hour and a half of my life..."
Thats all for now have to go rip some hair out of somebody. Be back later for a big post.
xxx- IN _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 11:11 pm Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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hmmm.
This In person is getting awfully slack in posting updates. It is the only way I know what is going on with her
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 6:40 am Post subject: Re: In the Day of an Inica- |
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hehehe- sorry guys.
What can I say, the only time i have to post is sleep time- and lately thats more inportant then two fans.
Only because i'm not getting any. BUT BUT BUT- there is light at the end of the tunnel. The specialist last week said that Hunter WILL improve. (so now i can take him off E-bay and the black market)
It's our 5th wedding Annivesary this weekend. WOW 5 years. doesn't feel that long- but then some times it does Told the husband if i had knocked him off in his sleep- i'd only have had to do 7 years maybe only 3 if all women jury......
ANYWAY- we are going away for two nights. ALL ALONE!. arrrrr, i can just sit here and imagine. Warm weather (predicitng rain- and been cold here), the sun (predicting cold grey skys) Hot spa, warm massage. and........SLEEEEEEP - can't wait.
So I wont be here the next 3 nights or so...so look after the place and no nasty posts to me.  _________________ Thinking of you Inica
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